There are certain sex positions in bed that you will get right and leave your girl 100% satisfied.
Sometimes, women and men have trouble agreeing , whether they’re in a relationship or not. This premise extends to the bedroom . We have different anatomies and tastes, and normally, what’s pleasing to your partner doesn’t necessarily mean it’s pleasing to you, and vice versa. However, there are certain positions that you’ll definitely get right , and you’ll get her to orgasm 100% of the time. Not only that, but you’ll also enjoy the relationship to the fullest. “Sex seems to be designed solely to give pleasure to the man,” sexologist Deborah Caust tells Men’s Journal . And this has to stop right now. The professional has gotten down to business and detailed the best positions for both of you .
Before we explain, it’s important to remember that you’ll only achieve your goal (enjoying yourself and getting her to climax) if you first dedicate a few minutes to foreplay . Without foreplay, there’s no lubrication, and without communication, there’s no satisfaction . Here are ten positions that will make you a king in the bedroom. Grab a pen and paper (or a notepad on your phone) and write them down:
1) Edge of the bed
This position is a favorite for both women and men, as it encourages deep penetration . Have her lie back on the bed, with her hips right at the edge of the bed. You’ll lift her legs (which will rest on your chest) and penetrate her completely while holding her legs. Note: If you’re very well-endowed, we recommend you avoid this position, as you could hurt her.
2) Coital alignment
If your girlfriend (or whoever you have in bed) is clitoral, she’ll love this position. The coital alignment technique is designed to stimulate the clitoris . It’s a new version of missionary. In this position, she has her legs together, and he has them apart. You’ll have to use the strength of your lower extremities to move your entire body. If you do the movement correctly, you’ll be able to stimulate her well-known ‘mons pubis ,’ that is, the fatty tissue that covers the pelvic bones and lies beneath the skin.
In this position, you’ll barely be able to penetrate her , at most, about 2.5 centimeters. However, the sexologist assures you not to worry, as you’ll still get enormous pleasure. “Even though they’re used to inserting it all the way in, they’ll feel every nook and cranny of the vagina on their penis, making the stimulation complete.”
3) The Amazon
We already warned you that the Amazon position requires some effort and flexibility , but it’s worth it. You should lie on your back, with your back resting on the bed and your legs bent , surrounding her. She will squat over you. The picture will help you understand:
4) Sunday afternoon
This position has a peculiar name, but it fits like a glove. If you think of a Sunday afternoon, what do you feel? It’s synonymous with tranquility, relaxation, comfort, home … And so is this position, with which you have absolute access to her clitoris . The woman lies on her back and raises one leg, resting it on your shoulder. The other leg will be between your lower limbs.
5) Generous pirate
This is only for the most daring. The generous pirate position allows for absolute depth and also complete clitoral stimulation, making it a win-win for both partners. She should lie on her back, and you’ll kneel while you hold her legs, which she will rest on your shoulders. Expert tip: add a pillow under her back for extra cushioning and, therefore, more pleasure.
6) The dominant
This version is a favorite for men who don’t like to move much . All the physical effort falls on her , who sits on top of you and does all the moving. You’ll be seated, while her legs loop around you. This position, called “dominant,” allows for many variations: you can hug, kiss, taste her breasts, touch her bottom, etc.
7) The puppy
This position is highly acclaimed by both men and women. We don’t need to explain much: she gets on all fours (as if she were a dog ) and you penetrate her from behind. The sexologist emphasizes that in addition to achieving deep penetration, it’s very easy to stimulate her clitoris with either partner’s hands.
8) The scissors
Explaining this position is quite challenging, although it’s actually quite simple. You’ll penetrate her from the side , allowing her clitoris to rub against your upper leg.
9) The cowgirl
We know you love this position. Men are huge fans of cowgirl because it gives them a fantastic view, which is incredibly arousing. Plus, they don’t have to make any effort. It’s also a great position for women because it allows them to go at their own pace, controlling the speed, depth, and angle of penetration while stimulating their clitoris with their hand .
10) Her favorite
We love you and want the best for you, you already know that. But we’re not going to do all the work for you either. The tenth ideal position is the one preferred by the woman you have in bed . Ask her and listen to what she needs to reach orgasm . Every woman is unique : some need aggression, others need sweet nothings whispered to them, others need eye contact… If she doesn’t give you a clear answer, you’ll have to find out for yourself. And don’t say you don’t know, because you’ve learned a lot from this article. You’re welcome, and let’s get to it.
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